People are all the time struggling in making decisions. From the first days of our life we make these decisions. Sometimes we are so afraid of it, that we can hurt ourself with just not doing anything.
For most teenagers the biggest struggle is that we don't know where we want to study.
The best way is to not try to make someone feel comfortable with what you are doing! It's not their job to tell you what you can do and what you are not supposed to do in your life. They already made their decitions and now is your time!
For most teenagers the biggest struggle is that we don't know where we want to study.
I consider myself an artist, living in a small country, which is not so much in art, makes diffecult for me in making this decision. When our family friends would come to our house they would ask me: "Xenia, where are you going to study?What you want to be?". And I would answer: "Well, I will study arts and make my studio". They would laugh in front of me saying that :"All artist are poor, you wanna be poor?"
The best way is to not try to make someone feel comfortable with what you are doing! It's not their job to tell you what you can do and what you are not supposed to do in your life. They already made their decitions and now is your time!
Here is how I deal with that.
1. You should know what you like!
2. And you should go with that.
If you like a lot writing and you think that this is the best way you can express yourself you should write. You can be anyone! And everything!
Society makes us to be afraid of ourself, makes us to follow the way which is known. Just because someone else didn't had a chance to try something else doesn't mean that you are not supposed to make your own way! You always have a choice, and your right way!
So, for now, I found a good Fine ARTs University and I'm planning to study there.
I love dancing and singing and drawing, playing different instruments. I know I will never be a good doctor because I'm afraid of the blood, or I never will be a math teacher if I don't like to count numbers.
We make our own life! My dad always said to me, : "Xenia, if you like something you should do it!". Yes, you should work a lot and make a big progress for becoming a good specialist in it! But if you have a dream, I'm 100% sure that you should try to make it true.
Here is some of my works. And good luck in making decisions!
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